Today’s episode is with Carmen Oates. Carmen is a DONA, Rebozo and Hypnobabies certified birth doula and mom to 3 living children and one angel baby. When Carmen was featured in this issue of Kidaround Magazine I knew I wanted to share her story with you all.
Carmen tells the story of how she lost her first baby during labor. Her first child had a chromosome disorder – trisomy 18. Her perspective of this experience is so heartbreaking and beautiful and she gives some great advice about how to deal with pregnancy and infant loss and to support someone who may be going through it. A great local organization she mentioned for support is Sharing Parents.
We also talked about:
· The transition of meeting the needs of two little ones when the second baby came around, including tandem nursing.
· The benefits of having a large age gap between her two oldest and her youngest baby
· Trusting yourself when it comes to parenting, birth and everything in between
· The Nicaraguan tradition of “Cuarentena” or 40 days rest after a new baby is born.
· How “shoulds” are evil.
· How to manage our lives less and really live them more.
· The importance of listening to all new moms, including those who have had losses.
You can find out more about Carmen at her website here.
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And a very Happy Thanksgiving to my listeners in the United States!
Hi all - today's episode is a short quick reminder episode:
First - the deadline for the postpartum year anthology is quick approaching! Please get your stories in by December 1st. More information and guidelines here.
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Finally - in 2016 I will be introducing mini episodes called "Ask the Childbirth Educator" so please send any and all questions you have about pregnancy, childbirth and postpartum to firstname.lastname@example.org.
Thank you ALL for listening!
Today is a very special episode, I talk with one of my best mama friends, Monica Denniston. Monica and I met when our daughters were just 5 and 8 weeks old in a mommy baby yoga class. Our girls are nearly two now and have literally ‘grown up’ together. Monica is due with baby number 2, a boy, in January. We’ve been talking about having her on the podcast since I began recording them, and I’m so glad to be able to share her story.
In this episode we talk about:
I know you will love this episode and our conversation! Love you, M.
You can find Monica’s blog “Cest’ Law Vie” here.
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Don’t forget! You still have a couple weeks to submit your stories for The Postpartum Year anthology. More information at www.kelliejoy.com/book
Thank you again for listening, supporting the show, and supporting moms!